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		<description><![CDATA[Are you into a relationship that can be described as platonic, unrequited or one-sided love? I&#8217;ve been thinking lots about it, and decided to write this post. Disclaimer I&#8217;m not a psychologist or have any degree on similar areas. Though I have a vast ammount of experience on the subject, can&#8217;t really say the information [...]]]></description>
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Are you into a relationship that can be described as platonic, unrequited or one-sided love?</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/unrequited.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="size-large wp-image-17434 alignnone" title="unrequited" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/unrequited-640x298.jpg" alt="Source: http://www.catherinestones.net/1charts.cfm" width="640" height="298" /></a></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been thinking lots about it, and decided to write this post.<br />
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<blockquote><p><span style="color: #ff0000;">Disclaimer</span><br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;"> I&#8217;m not a psychologist or have any degree on similar areas. Though I have a vast ammount of experience on the subject, can&#8217;t really say the information on this post is valid, reliable, scientifically proven or right in any way. As a 30 year old guy who still has to deal with thoughts like these (do they ever go away anyways?), not particularly hideous appearance (can&#8217;t say I&#8217;m handsome, but this never stopped anyone from being loved), but with a very particular bad luck on having crushes with people who don&#8217;t feel the same (maybe it&#8217;s some sort of hidden masoquist side).</span><br />
<span style="color: #ff0000;"> Take this as my own educated opinion and nothing else.</span></p></blockquote>
<p>It&#8217;ll be a very very long post, sorry about that. But in this case, I felt it was best to write everything&#8230; it&#8217;s a serious subject that can&#8217;t be summarized.</p>
<p>note: I started writting this&#8230; late 2010 I guess. Took me a while to update, format and publish&#8230; but yeah, guess that&#8217;s about it.</p>
<h3>Introduction</h3>
<p>After thinking much about it, I started noticing connections with platonic love and the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model">Kübler-Ross model</a> which describes the five stages of grief.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/chartOnDeathandDying.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="size-full wp-image-17429 alignnone" title="chartOnDeathandDying" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/chartOnDeathandDying.jpg" alt="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_oGEHS8ZZ9Aw/SNqTKwoGqdI/AAAAAAAACTE/AcK41eMAD7U/s400/papers_facilitation_fig01.gif" width="400" height="377" /></a></p>
<pre>Summary - the model describes a progression of states which people go through when faced with grief and tragedy.
In the mainstream media it's mostly used for people dealing with terminal diseases (terminal cancer for instance), but the model has also been adopted for big changes in a person's life - like dropping a bad habit or addiction for instance.</pre>
<p>Why I used the Kübler-Ross model?</p>
<p>Depending on how much you became involved with those feelings, you&#8217;ll mostly have to die and be reborn again.<br />
Those who can&#8217;t understand this probably won&#8217;t need help, but I&#8217;ll explain.</p>
<h5>Symptoms</h5>
<p>When you go too deep into a one-sided love, you tend to loose perspective of your own life by yourself.<br />
You surrender your plans for the future and replace them with a future shared with who you love.<br />
Everything else in your life has it&#8217;s importance diminished, if not completely extinguished.<br />
After all, a future which you imagine &#8211; with unrealistic expectations mixed with yearnings and longings that you have for your ideal life &#8211; will always be better than reality.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bq8BsIZejE">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bq8BsIZejE</a></p>
<p>All of your energies end up trapped around something that will never happen.</p>
<h4>Everyday thoughts</h4>
<p>Usually, people who tends to get into platonic love cases spend lots of time, if not all the time, thinking about the loved one.<br />
If too much time passes, this becomes a routine, a habit, sometimes an addiction, as hard to give up as any drug.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/LoveDrug.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17459" title="LoveDrug" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/LoveDrug.jpg" alt="Source: http://www.birthsource.ca/shop/media/LoveDrug.jpg" width="400" height="300" /></a><br />
You start creating scenarios of what will happen when she finally recognizes and tells you she feels the same.<br />
You picture a better self by her side and for her, you commit to change the worst parts of yourself when that happens.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/49ce9a993fc28416877804067102835e.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17460" title="49ce9a993fc28416877804067102835e" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/49ce9a993fc28416877804067102835e.jpg" alt="Source: http://www.crunkcodes.com/media/1/49ce9a993fc28416877804067102835e.jpg" width="282" height="322" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a distorted version of yourself that would probably never happen even if the love was mutual.<br />
In fact, when love starts off as platonic and ends up mutual, sometimes the platonic part might also be the reason for a future break up. Simply because the image that you made of that person doesn&#8217;t correspond to reality.</p>
<h4>Rebuilding</h4>
<p>Platonic love can sometimes be harmless, and sometimes can be like a terminal disease.<br />
So the radical idea is to kill your former self, give up the life you&#8217;ve been living so far, rebuilding habits and routine so you don&#8217;t feel tempted to waste more time doing things wrong. Distance yourself, try to learn something from the whole deal and move on.<br />
Easier said then done. It&#8217;s a hard choice that will take all your guts, and might feel like tearing apart something that you spend a lot of time working on, being a part of you.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OlhLOWTnVoQ">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OlhLOWTnVoQ</a></p>
<p>But sometimes it&#8217;s either that, or spend the rest of your life living an illusion and trapped with something that will haunt your energy out of you everyday&#8230; &#8217;till it ends up killing you.</p>
<h4>Differences</h4>
<p>First and foremost, unlike the Kübler-Ross model, it seems to me that for platonic love cases the steps are not as progressive, or at least not as clear and sequencial. You can have a mix of them at a time.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/pandoras_box_waterhouse2.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17470" title="pandoras_box_waterhouse2" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/pandoras_box_waterhouse2.jpg" alt="Source: http://johnbardi.edublogs.org/files/2008/12/pandoras_box_waterhouse2.jpg" width="540" height="361" /></a><br />
The main reason is because what&#8217;s provoking the feeling is visible and might be someone you just happen to see everyday.<br />
So it&#8217;s not uncommon to advance some steps in solving the problem one day, but the next one end up receding.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: left;">Analisys</h3>
<p>I&#8217;ll adopt a male point of view, but I guess this also works for women and even in some slightly different situations.<br />
With that in mind, let&#8217;s start:</p>
<h4><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Shock</span></h4>
<p>It will happen when you realize your love is one-sided.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/BrokenHeart.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17461" title="BrokenHeart" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/BrokenHeart.jpg" alt="Source: http://questaodeopiniao.blog.com/files/2011/03/BrokenHeart.jpg" width="410" height="378" /></a></p>
<p>The whole deal will start not by the doctor telling you have a terminal disease, but instead by the girl you like telling you she doesn&#8217;t like you. Or a friend of hers telling you she&#8217;s not interested. Or by you finding out she&#8217;s already got someone else in mind.</p>
<h4><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Denial</span></h4>
<p>Deep inside you know it won&#8217;t happen. What you feel is one sided. But you won&#8217;t believe that. You don&#8217;t want to.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Examples</span>:<br />
&#8220;She was in a bad mood&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Playing hard to get&#8221;<br />
&#8220;If I try approaching her in a different way&#8221;<br />
&#8220;She just doesn&#8217;t know the true me&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Maybe if I change somethings about the way I am&#8221;</p>
<p>This can take quite a while. And those who are in this step probably won&#8217;t even be reading this.<br />
But one strategy is put yourself in the position of others. How she and your friends and her friends see the whole deal. Is the relationship even possible?<br />
It&#8217;s not exactly easy to dimiss, and after all those beautiful movies of impossible relationships coming to fruition, that always seems to end with &#8220;and they lived happily ever after&#8221; you might think &#8220;hey, this might happen to me!&#8221;.</p>
<div id="attachment_17464" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 285px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/glass-slipper-smaller.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="size-full wp-image-17464" title="glass-slipper-smaller" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/glass-slipper-smaller.jpg" alt="Source: http://static.heels.com/img/high_heels_blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/glass-slipper-smaller.jpg" width="275" height="205" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Variations on a theme</p></div>
<p>Would someone even consider it happening? Did she even give a real hint of having feelings for you? Remember that acting friendly isn&#8217;t the same as corresponding your feelings.<br />
Sometimes you&#8217;ll just find out that she treats you like any other friend, and everytime you thought something was going on it was just your mind playing tricks.<br />
Maybe you&#8217;ll notice it was just you going after her all the time, she never even looked at you in a different way.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/stalking1.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17465" title="stalking1" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/stalking1.jpg" alt="Source: http://rubywildflower.files.wordpress.com/2010/07/stalking1.jpg" width="500" height="375" /></a></p>
<p>It is harder when she considers you a really good friend, or if she is very considerate to all her friends.<br />
Try noticing the difference between how much you dedicate yourself to that feeling, and how much she does.<br />
Are you always the one calling, sending e-mails, telling how much you like her, etc? She doesn&#8217;t tell you straight, but she also never told you she didn&#8217;t like you. That difference is key to understanding it&#8217;d never work out anyways. And given how much you like her, entering a relationship that would be this uneven or bound to end soon, you might consider it&#8217;s for the best that it never happens at all.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/bad_boy_relationships_comic.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17438" title="bad_boy_relationships_comic" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/bad_boy_relationships_comic-507x540.jpg" alt="" width="507" height="540" /></a></p>
<p>Once you understand that, then maybe you&#8217;ll go to the next step.</p>
<h4><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Anger</span></h4>
<p>It&#8217;s never gonna happen and you know and admit it. But now you&#8217;re frustrated and angered by spending so much time and effort thinking that somehow it would all work out.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Examples</span>:<br />
&#8220;Why is God making this to me?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;What did I do to deserve this?&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Everything goes wrong in my life, fuck the world&#8221;<br />
&#8220;My life is a living Hell&#8221;</p>
<p>As long as you know how to, it&#8217;s actually good to vent your anger.<br />
But it might come in different forms, and might affect your life considerably.<br />
For instance, you might vent your anger towards friends, the loved one, yourself or some higher instance like God, destiny or whatever.<br />
It might not be fair, but if you manage to blame her for &#8220;fooling you&#8221; or something like that your platonic love can even end here.<br />
After all, how can you love someone you hate? Well, ok, sometimes it happens.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/i-hate-loving-you.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17471" title="i-hate-loving-you" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/i-hate-loving-you.jpg" alt="Source: http://mychildishromance.files.wordpress.com/2009/12/i-hate-loving-you.jpg" width="400" height="301" /></a><br />
But usually, you&#8217;ll end up blaming yourself.<br />
And not only you have to be careful not to take that anger too far, but also you&#8217;ll have to watch yourself not to loose friends, family or sanity over it.<br />
This is one of the stages when things can go very badly.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/wm-Love-Suicide.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17468" title="wm-Love Suicide" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/wm-Love-Suicide-377x540.jpg" alt="Source: http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_MGdwj9Zcfs0/TSDPmI4gQxI/AAAAAAAAABo/wBWe6hGxGJY/s1600/wm-Love+Suicide.jpg" width="377" height="540" /></a><br />
For instance, people with personality disorders can go violent, people that are too angry at themselves might try something drastic &#8211; like suicide &#8211; and so on.<br />
After a while you just realize shit happens. It&#8217;s not your fault for falling in love, it&#8217;s not her fault for not falling in love with you.<br />
Sometimes friends could&#8217;ve warned sooner, but either you didn&#8217;t tell them how much you liked her, or she didn&#8217;t make it clear about her feelings.<br />
Which is normal by the way&#8230; you know, it&#8217;s kind of a confortable zone not to express extreme emotions. Exactly why it takes a lot to say someone you love him/her, or hate him/her.<br />
Also, since love sometimes isn&#8217;t something that happens instantly, we can never tell for shure.<br />
I particularly don&#8217;t believe in love at first sight. Physical attraction yes, a feeling that he/she might be the one, ok. But love comes after you&#8217;ve known someone quite a while. Platonic love usually happens because you idealize a person that might or might not be that way. Think Photoshop not only for appearance, but also for personality and other stuff.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/heart-eye-3123.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17466" title="heart-eye--3123" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/heart-eye-3123-640x498.jpg" alt="Source: http://www.freakingnews.com/pictures/3000/heart-eye--3123.jpg" width="640" height="498" /></a><br />
Finally, communication between people is the most difficult part. Because we can interpret what others are saying in so many different ways&#8230; there&#8217;s no direct channel to the mind or the heart.</p>
<p>An exhausting step, then comes another.</p>
<h4><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Bargaining</span></h4>
<p>You&#8217;re not angry anymore. Still, you&#8217;re not completely over it. So you know she&#8217;ll never love you, but you might accept something else instead.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Examples</span>:<br />
&#8220;If I truly love her, watching over her happiness is good enough&#8221;<br />
&#8220;I&#8217;ll just settle for the closest position I can&#8221;<br />
&#8220;Having her close at times is better than nothing&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a trap lots of people in this situation ends up in. You know what I&#8217;m talking about.<br />
The Friend Zone.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/friendzone1.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17437" title="friendzone1" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/friendzone1-640x480.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="480" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a bargain that might look good at first.<br />
You&#8217;ll still be close to the person you love, you&#8217;ll be able to spend time with her, she cares about you in some way, and the agony of not knowing what&#8217;s happening to her will be less of a bother.<br />
You care about her and would do anything to please her. You&#8217;d die defending her, and one day she might end up loving you somehow!</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be fooled though, your mind is playing tricks on you again.<br />
Analyze the situation. Is it realistic to think she&#8217;ll ever change her mind?<br />
Weight that against the odds of her finding someone else she really likes. Will you be able to cope with that?<br />
Do you really think you&#8217;re the only one for her? If you do, why didn&#8217;t she go after you?<br />
Also think of the time of your life you&#8217;ll waste with those expectations, stuck with that idea that will dominate you every day and every hour, the chances you&#8217;ll waste of finding someone else.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/friend-zone.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17436" title="friend-zone" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/friend-zone-640x512.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="512" /></a></p>
<p>The Friend Zone is a trap not only for it&#8217;s consequences, but because while you&#8217;re with her you&#8217;ll feel like you&#8217;re on a relationship. One that is far more monogamic than normal relationships, because you won&#8217;t be able to turn your eyes to other girls.<br />
How much more you&#8217;ll have to cry over something that&#8217;s not there, how bad you&#8217;ll feel for lying you feel ok being just a friend, how regretfull it&#8217;ll become once you loose that bet with yourself?</p>
<p><a href="http://xkcd.com/513/"><img class="size-large wp-image-17435 alignnone" title="friends" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/friends-388x540.png" alt="Source: http://xkcd.com/513/" width="388" height="540" /></a></p>
<p>The bet you&#8217;re making here is like winning the lottery. You bet all your energy, time, possible relationships and you&#8217;ll let your feelings be hurt and trampled over everytime she hooks up with another guy. And then you&#8217;ll either end up very badly when she gets in a stable relationship with someone else, or &#8211; the very unlikely winning scenario &#8211; she&#8217;ll end up with you because, well, you&#8217;re what&#8217;s left. Which puts you in a relationship that&#8217;s completely off balance and will likely lead you to a life of misery and pain.</p>
<p>The sooner you realize that, the less you&#8217;ll suffer with the next step.</p>
<h4><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Depression</span></h4>
<p>The pits. The bottom. Lowest level. This love is one sided, nothing else will come close to that, and you know you can&#8217;t pursue that anymore. You wasted time and energy that are never coming back.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Examples</span>:<br />
&#8220;I&#8217;ll never fall in love again&#8221;<br />
&#8220;My once in a lifetime chance is gone&#8221;</p>
<p>After all those things considered, all the time and energy you spent on something you now know that isn&#8217;t going to happen, all the expectations and plans going down the drain, all the frustration, anger and shame for what you have done, it&#8217;s only natural to be depressed.<br />
This is the step where people commit suicide. Not for show, not out of desperation, not a call for attention.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/264932456_b38be6da43.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17473" title="264932456_b38be6da43" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/264932456_b38be6da43.jpg" alt="Source: http://farm1.static.flickr.com/109/264932456_b38be6da43.jpg" width="375" height="500" /></a><br />
It&#8217;s when you reached rock botton and finally know you have nothing left.<br />
It&#8217;s too much to handle, and you might add that with previous bad experiences of your past.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/im-empty-inside.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17472" title="im-empty-inside" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/im-empty-inside-540x540.jpg" alt="Source: http://gothicart.in-pics.com/img/im-empty-inside.jpg" width="540" height="540" /></a><br />
You feel useless, hopeless, empty and dead inside.<br />
Hopefully, you didn&#8217;t scare away all your friends on the second step because you will need them here.<br />
And if you don&#8217;t have reliable friends, it&#8217;s all the more difficult to deal with it.<br />
If you do have, depend on them, go after them, try to spend time with them&#8230; it&#8217;ll be easier on you, and they&#8217;ll understand.</p>
<p>If you spent too long a time with that platonic love, it might be a step that will take a long time or something very strong to overcome.<br />
It all depends on how much you changed, your thinking process and your expectations about your future, and how strong those things became.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Tunnel_of_Love_01.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17475" title="Tunnel_of_Love_01" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Tunnel_of_Love_01-640x326.jpg" alt="Source: http://images.wikia.com/left4dead/images/f/f4/Tunnel_of_Love_01.jpg" width="640" height="326" /></a></p>
<p>Because it can get very bad if, for instance, you stopped looking at other girls because of that feeling.<br />
Or you lost perspective as an individual when it comes to your plans about your future.<br />
Before knowing the girl, you imagined your future self as having a successful career, having money to spend on several hobbies, healthier, stronger, more social, not afraid to show some personality at times, etc.<br />
But then she came, and all those plans became insignificant. If you have her love, nothing else matters.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/5475077798_79e50980ab.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17476" title="5475077798_79e50980ab" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/5475077798_79e50980ab.jpg" alt="Source: http://farm6.static.flickr.com/5012/5475077798_79e50980ab.jpg" width="500" height="281" /></a></p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to switch back, but if you can&#8217;t think of anything else, it&#8217;s worth a try.<br />
Remember: it&#8217;s the bottom of the pit. The only way you have is up. It&#8217;s hard to go up again, and you might fall several times&#8230; but you have no other choices.<br />
Try reminding of what made you happy before. Try picking and rebuilding those things up.<br />
If you can come up with something new, and still has enough willpower to go after it, that might be the way.</p>
<p>Sometimes you have to set goals and go blindly after them no matter how much you suffer, no matter how hard it seems at first.<br />
Nothing is harder to forget than someone you love, have loved for a long time, of loves too much.<br />
And it&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;ll never truly forget.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ThuXEDvCZk">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ThuXEDvCZk</a></p>
<p>But try finding ways of not thinking of her every day, every minute of your waking hours.<br />
This is also why you have to cut loose all ties that you had with her.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Time_heals_all_wounds____by_da5id2112.jpg" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-17477" title="Time_heals_all_wounds____by_da5id2112" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/Time_heals_all_wounds____by_da5id2112-640x400.jpg" alt="Source: http://fc07.deviantart.net/fs39/f/2008/358/9/7/Time_heals_all_wounds____by_da5id2112.jpg" width="640" height="400" /></a></p>
<p>Out of sight, out of mind&#8230; at least after a while.<br />
And she&#8217;ll understand. If she sees you as a friend, even if you have to explain it to her, it&#8217;ll not be too hard to understand that even if she&#8217;s not to blame for that platonic love, the best thing is to keep away.</p>
<p><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/movingon.gif" rel="lightbox[17416]"><img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-17479" title="movingon" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/movingon.gif" alt="Source: http://www.kartoen.be/cartoons/happysad/movingon.gif" width="500" height="520" /></a><br />
In fact, for people who are the object of love, know that the best thing is not to feel pitty. Don&#8217;t try turning a person who has a platonic love for you into a friend. You don&#8217;t want a friend that you&#8217;ll only hurt, right? Be sincere, no matter how hard that is, for you or for the other person. The worst part of platonic loves is anxiety, the &#8220;what ifs&#8221; and not being certain if there&#8217;s a chance or not.<br />
If there&#8217;s absolutely no chance, just say so. May be kinda harsh at first, but it&#8217;s what is needed to move on.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFVlJAi3Cso">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AFVlJAi3Cso</a></p>
<p>Sacrifices will have to be made.</p>
<h4><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Acceptance</span></h4>
<p>You suffered a lot, went through all the confusion and hardship, had friends to support you or found out by yourself a way to deal with it. Feeling prostrated all that time, there might be a chance to stand up straight once again. So you accept that it was a platonic love, might even consider how ridiculous and absurd your thoughts and acts during the whole process were, and convince yourself that you have learned through that and has a chance now to move on.<br />
&#8220;It was a nice dream that ended in a terrible nightmare, but now I must wake up&#8221;.<br />
It&#8217;s not that you are necessarily ready to love someone else. But you finally accepted the entire situation.<br />
That&#8217;s how hard it is to understand what you&#8217;ve been through.<br />
But with other goals in mind, and hopes of becoming someone else, starting anew, you get prepared for the closing of this chapter in your life.<br />
One of the things that might do it for you is right by the end of Damien Rice&#8217;s The Blower&#8217;s Daughter lyrics. Pay close attention.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dt_IvtMXFNw">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dt_IvtMXFNw</a></p>
<p>Now that you read all this, it all sounds easy, right? Wrong.<br />
You see, while writing I have myself all over those steps.<br />
Not only my feelings are mixed up, I also still can&#8217;t see any progression, so I came to write this feeling that not only it might help someone else, but most important, might help myself.<br />
Some people will never have to deal with platonic love, but there are no boundaries or defined classes to those who will be affected.<br />
Doesn&#8217;t matter if you are rich or poor, what skin color you have, sex, education, age or whatever.<br />
Sometimes it&#8217;s easier, sometimes it&#8217;s so hard you just can&#8217;t deal with it anymore.<br />
Don&#8217;t feel ashamed for that, tell friends you can trust about it, write, confess, let it out.<br />
And best of luck!</p>
<p>Sources:</p>
<p>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/K%C3%BCbler-Ross_model</p>
<p>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unrequited_love</p>
<p>http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Friend_zone</p>
<p>http://www.outofthefriendzone.com/letter.html (take this one with a grain of salt, ok?)</p>
<p>http://xkcd.com/513/</p>
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		<title>Um Nerd no Japão &#8211; Héctor García</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Foi por acaso que encontrei o livro de Héctor García &#8211; mais conhecido como Kirai do blog KiraiNet &#8211; Um Nerd no Japão. Resumidamente, é um livro essencial para todo otaku, nerd que gosta do Japão ou vai para o Japão, tem interesse na cultura moderna japonesa, ou simplesmente quer aprender além do clichê passado [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Foi por acaso que encontrei o livro de Héctor García &#8211; mais conhecido como Kirai do blog <a href="http://www.kirainet.com/">KiraiNet</a> &#8211; Um Nerd no Japão.<br />
<div id="attachment_17444" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 510px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/isbn978-85-7787-291-6.jpg" rel="lightbox[17443]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/isbn978-85-7787-291-6.jpg" alt="um nerd no Japão - Héctor García" title="isbn978-85-7787-291-6" width="500" height="500" class="size-full wp-image-17444" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">um nerd no Japão - Héctor García</p></div><br />
Resumidamente, é um livro essencial para todo otaku, nerd que gosta do Japão ou vai para o Japão, tem interesse na cultura moderna japonesa, ou simplesmente quer aprender além do clichê passado pela mídia tradicional.<br />
Vou elaborar um pouco mais a seguir&#8230;<br />
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Enquanto comprava meus quadrinhos e mangás, vi o livro aleatoriamente junto de outros sobre cultura japonesa, e achei o título interessante. Mas foi só quando virei o livro que descobri que tinha sido escrito pelo autor de um dos blogs que leio diariamente!</p>
<p>Com uma capa bem simples que simboliza o conteúdo mas não chama tanta a atenção, admito que não esperava ter várias respostas a minhas perguntas e curiosidades sobre a sociedade japonesa moderna.<br />
A estrutura inicia com aspectos históricos e sócio-culturais formando uma base para que se entenda melhor a cultura moderna atual.<br />
É um livro totalmente ilustrado por fotos &#8211; em parte tiradas pelo próprio autor, um talento para capturar cenários inusitados &#8211; , organizado em temas de forma agradável tanto para leitura direta quanto consulta.<br />
A escrita é leve, bem humorada, fácil de entender e com um toque especial de relatos de experiências que Héctor passou quando resolveu se mudar para o Japão. Um dos pontos cruciais do livro: Foi escrito não por um repórter que esteve de passagem e ficou deslumbrado por coisas estranhas que chamaram a atenção, mas por alguém que realmente passou pela experiência de se mudar pra lá, viveu o dia a dia, e pesquisou para conhecer melhor e se adaptar a vida lá.<br />
Uma pequena crítica talvez seja o tamanho da fonte escolhida para o livro. Mas isso dá espaço para mais informações sobre o assunto, e realmente é o de menos, então&#8230;</p>
<p>Aspectos como a religião e crenças no Japão, as bases que formam o pensamento japonês, como é a vida diária, o que assistem na TV, como se relacionam e vários outros temas interessantes para compreender o que se passa em animes, mangas, filmes e para quem pensa em ir para lá, estão no livro.<br />
Enquanto Um Nerd no Japão não se aprofunda demais em nenhum dos temas, cobre bem vários aspectos da cultura moderna que nenhum outro livro que li trata. Acaba formando uma ponte perfeita de literatura leve e ilustrada para quem quer entender melhor da cultura sem se perder em vários livros ou páginas da wikipedia.<br />
Os capítulos finais que falam sobre os bairros de Tóquio e cidades do Japão, como um guia turístico para vários tipos de pessoas (otakus, interessados na cultura, interessados em tecnologia, etc), só me fez querer ainda mais juntar as tralhas e fazer como o autor do livro&#8230; me mudar para esse país tão diferente e fascinante.</p>
<p>Recomendo para todos. Tem sido muito comum ouvir comentários sobre várias coisas do Japão formadas por preconceitos, informações superficiais e besteiras criadas pela grande mídia. Muitas vezes blogs e programas de TV pintam o Japão com tons sensacionalistas. Taxam Japão (e outros países orientais) como pervertido, estranho, bizarro e outras idiotices excluindo aspectos culturais e o dia a dia numa cidade como Tóquio. Livros como o de Héctor são raridade.<br />
Fico esperando a tradução do próximo livro agora: <a href="http://www.kirainet.com/un-geek-en-japon-momentos/">Momentos</a></p>
<p>ps. Para os que tiverem intereresse no blog, não deixem de conferir a <a href="http://www.kirainet.com/english/japanese-sleeping-9/">série de fotos dos japoneses dormindo em público</a>!</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 17:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was by chance that I found Héctor García&#8217;s (aka Kirai from KiraiNet) A Geek in Japan. In short, it&#8217;s an essencial book for every otaku, geek who likes Japan or is going to Japan, is interested in modern japanese culture, or simply wants to know more than the average cliché that&#8217;s always on the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was by chance that I found Héctor García&#8217;s (aka Kirai from <a href="http://www.kirainet.com/english/">KiraiNet</a>) A Geek in Japan.<br />
<div id="attachment_17452" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/619WBo2lbWL._SL500_AA300_.jpg" rel="lightbox[17451]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/619WBo2lbWL._SL500_AA300_.jpg" alt="A Geek in Japan - Héctor García" title="A Geek in Japan" width="300" height="300" class="size-full wp-image-17452" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">A Geek in Japan - Héctor García</p></div><br />
In short, it&#8217;s an essencial book for every otaku, geek who likes Japan or is going to Japan, is interested in modern japanese culture, or simply wants to know more than the average cliché that&#8217;s always on the traditional media.<br />
I&#8217;ll elaborate some more after the jump.<br />
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While I was on my average shopping spree on comics and mangas, I spotted the book randomly among others about japanese culture.<br />
Found the title interesting. But it was only after I took a closer look that I found out it was written by the author of one of the blogs I read daily!</p>
<p>With a rather plain cover that simbolizes the content but don&#8217;t really catches your attention (I read the portuguese version&#8230; the english cover looks better imo), I admit that wasn&#8217;t expecting several of my questions and curiosities about modern japanese society to be answered there.<br />
Structure begins with several historical and socio-cultural aspects, building a base so that the reader understands better the modern current culture.<br />
It&#8217;s a book filled with photos and pics &#8211; several of them taken by the author himself, a real talent when capturing unexpected scenarios &#8211; , organized in sections that is pleasing to read either straight or as a per topic guide.<br />
It&#8217;s easy to read, has lots of humor, easy to understand and has lots of personal experiences from Héctor when he decided to move to Japan. This is the main interesting point of the book: It was written not by someone who went to Japan for a vacation and became dazzled by strange or bizarre stuff, but by someone that really went through the experience of moving there, had a daily life, and was interested in researching a lot to know better and adapt to a new life there.<br />
The only complaint I might have is relative to the font size chosen for the book. But this also gives more room for the information and the subject, and is really not that bad, so&#8230;</p>
<p>Subjects such as religion and belief systems in Japan, the basis which compose the japanese way of life, how is daily life there, what people watch on TV, how they relate to each other and several other interesting themes needed to understand animes, mangas, movies and for those who are going to Japan are in the book.<br />
While A Geek in Japan doesn&#8217;t get too deep into any of the themes, it covers several aspectos of the modersn culture better than any other book I&#8217;ve ever read. Ends up building the perfect link between light illustrated reading for those seeking information without the necessity of loosing hours on books with specific themes, or pages and pages from Wikipedia.<br />
The final chapters which covers Tokyo wards and essencial japanese cities, like a tourist guide for people with specific needs (otakus, culture seekers, tech freaks, etc), only made me want even more to get my stuff and do just like the book author did&#8230; move to this different and fascinating country.</p>
<p>I recommend it to everyone. It&#8217;s been really common to hear comments about several things Japan made up by prejudice, superficial information and bullsh*t made up by mainstream media. Blogs and TV shows paints Japan with sensationalist colors.<br />
Asian countries are marked as perverted, strange, bizarre and other stupidities, often excluding cultural aspects and the daily life in a city such as Tokyo. Books like Héctor&#8217;s are a rarity.<br />
Now, I&#8217;m left waiting for the translation of his next book: <a href="http://www.kirainet.com/un-geek-en-japon-momentos/">Momentos</a></p>
<p>- For those who are interested in his blog, don&#8217;t forget to check the <a href="http://www.kirainet.com/english/japanese-sleeping-9/">series of posts about japanese sleeping in public spaces!</a>!</p>
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		<title>Inception &#8211; What I took from it</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you didn&#8217;t watch Inception just yet, do yourself a favor an do it! I&#8217;m making this post to share my own conclusions about it, so please be advised, it&#8217;s almost pure SPOILERS. And even if you don&#8217;t mind it, I&#8217;d suggest you don&#8217;t read it and try first to reach your own conclusions before [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you didn&#8217;t watch Inception just yet, do yourself a favor an do it!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66TuSJo4dZM">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66TuSJo4dZM</a></p>
<p>I&#8217;m making this post to share my own conclusions about it, so please be advised, it&#8217;s almost pure <strong><span style="color: #ff0000;">SPOILERS</span></strong>.<br />
And even if you don&#8217;t mind it, I&#8217;d suggest you don&#8217;t read it and try first to reach your own conclusions before reading this.<br />
But if you already watched the movie, I do recommend reading the post to compare your conclusions with mine, correct me if I&#8217;m wrong, or just try to analyze the movie deeper&#8230; it&#8217;s what I liked the most about the whole movie.<br />
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Posting some of the trailers before I start rambling.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3XzUYd6nrU">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3XzUYd6nrU</a></p>
<p>And one more.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmkQ7fw-l0g">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mmkQ7fw-l0g</a></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong> Spoilers start here, you&#8217;ve been warned!</strong></span><br />
First of all, let me begin by saying that I usually don&#8217;t write movie reviews, but there&#8217;s a reason I decided to make this one.<br />
I might be completely wrong on this one, but here&#8217;s my reason: I believe most people won&#8217;t be able to fully understand the plot complexity or the whole idea which made me admire Christopher Nolan and put this movie among the best of all times in my list.</p>
<p>I already had high expectations about this movie before watching it. The stunningly beautiful and atmospheric soundtrack by one of my favorite composers (Hans Zimmer), a very nice choice for trailer music (, photography from previous Nolan movies, and great actors were enough to make me guess it would be a good movie. But I really wasn&#8217;t prepared for the dimension of it!<br />
<div id="attachment_17405" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/inception12.jpg" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/inception12-640x480.jpg" alt="Inception" title="inception12" width="640" height="480" class="size-large wp-image-17405" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inception</p></div><br />
At first, after watching it I thought it was an awesome movie &#8211; costumization, scenarios, crossreferences (M.C. Escher) &#8211; but as I was still thinking about the movie, it was only after a bathroom break that it hit me like a train&#8230; it was like HOLY F*CK! Most people won&#8217;t realize how big the story truly is!</p>
<p>I avoided spoilers like the plague, and I don&#8217;t know if other people reached the same conclusions as me (didn&#8217;t find anyone else who did, including people who watched it with me), but here goes.</p>
<p>Naturally, after getting home I started reading Wikipedia entries, searching for stuff about the movie. There are nice images out there for those who got confused about the dream levels and characters, such as this one:</p>
<div id="attachment_17399" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 342px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception-hires.jpg" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img class="size-large wp-image-17399" title="Inception-hires" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception-hires-332x540.jpg" alt="The Levels of Inception" width="332" height="540" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The Levels of Inception</p></div>
<p>(source: http://www.giantfreakinrobot.com/film/5-levels-inception-infographic.html )<br />
And this one:</p>
<div id="attachment_17400" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 370px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception_Infographic_by_dehahs.jpg" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img class="size-large wp-image-17400" title="Inception_Infographic_by_dehahs" src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception_Infographic_by_dehahs-360x540.jpg" alt="Inception Timeline" width="360" height="540" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inception Timeline</p></div>
<p>(source: http://dehahs.deviantart.com/#/d2unnlj )</p>
<p>I heard people comparing it to The Matrix, heard and read lots of people discussing the open end, and the fact that Nolan left the spinning totem in the end for viewers to decide it&#8217;s end.<br />
<div id="attachment_17406" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/inception.png" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/inception-640x318.png" alt="Inception - Cobb&#039;s Totem" title="inception" width="640" height="318" class="size-large wp-image-17406" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inception - Cobb's Totem</p></div><br />
But here&#8217;s my opinion: <strong>There&#8217;s only one ending</strong>. And even more: <strong>Cobb&#8217;s totem isn&#8217;t something decisive</strong> to it&#8230; it&#8217;s only a tip Nolan left there for people to realise how further down the rabbit&#8217;s hole the movie&#8217;s plot goes!</p>
<p>One might think this way: But if Cobb&#8217;s totem stops spinning, like it almost seemed to do, then it&#8217;s proof that he&#8217;s not dreaming at all&#8230; and that&#8217;s the end of that.<br />
What I&#8217;m thinking is: If Cobb is still dreaming, it doesn&#8217;t matter if his totem stops spinning or not since the whole idea of the totem theory was created into the dream.<br />
<div id="attachment_17407" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception-wallpapers-inception-2010-12396520-1920-1080.jpg" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception-wallpapers-inception-2010-12396520-1920-1080-640x360.jpg" alt="Inception" title="Inception-wallpapers-inception-2010-12396520-1920-1080" width="640" height="360" class="size-large wp-image-17407" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inception</p></div><br />
<strong>The whole movie is a dream</strong>. There are few, very well mixed up, and subtle tips there&#8230; I&#8217;ll have to watch the movie all over again to &#8220;fish&#8221; some more, but from what I remember:<br />
- Cobb is THE MAN, he&#8217;s the best, he travels around the world, everything he does works out, etc;<br />
- Ending is perfect, just as planned, for Cobb and for his almost impossible job;<br />
<div id="attachment_17408" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception-scenes-5.jpg" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/Inception-scenes-5-640x268.jpg" alt="Inception - Limbo" title="Inception scenes 5" width="640" height="268" class="size-large wp-image-17408" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inception - Limbo</p></div><br />
Now, let&#8217;s talk about the plot development. More specifically the climax.<br />
When Cobb reaches the 5th level (Limbo) there are two main things he accomplishes there: The final step to convince Robert Fisher (the Target) that the inception (that his father wanted him to dismantle the company) is real (saving the whole team during that), and coming to terms with Mal&#8217;s (his wife) death. This second accomplishment is key to understanding.<br />
<div id="attachment_17409" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 570px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/20100624_inception_560x375.jpg" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/20100624_inception_560x375.jpg" alt="Inception - Miles" title="20100624_inception_560x375" width="560" height="375" class="size-full wp-image-17409" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inception - Miles</p></div><br />
Now, to the characters: First, let&#8217;s talk about Miles (Cobb&#8217;s father in law, mentor and foster parent to Cobb&#8217;s children).<br />
He taught everything Cobb knows about dreams, and in the final scenes it seems he knows what&#8217;s happening&#8230; calling the kids and getting Cobb&#8217;s attention.<br />
Miles could be the one behind Cobb&#8217;s dream, which some will think as reality.<br />
He has a reason: To make Cobb come in terms with his wife&#8217;s death, which in turn will make Cobb overcome his fear of looking his children&#8217;s face again. We still can&#8217;t know what&#8217;s the situation on reality (or I couldn&#8217;t grasp it), but it could be a completely different story.<br />
It could be that Miles don&#8217;t even know why Cobb can&#8217;t look at his children faces, which is why he has to go so far.<br />
But it&#8217;s a huge trauma, and an almost impossible task to accomplish.<br />
For that, Miles needs to plant an idea on Cobb&#8217;s mind (inception), which leads us to&#8230; A<strong>riadne &#8211; Miles&#8217; inception to Cobb</strong>.<br />
<div id="attachment_17410" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/inception_45.jpg.jpg" rel="lightbox[17398]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/inception_45.jpg-640x418.jpg" alt="Inception - Ariadne" title="inception_45.jpg" width="640" height="418" class="size-large wp-image-17410" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Inception - Ariadne</p></div><br />
Ariadne, the architect who Miles points out as &#8220;better than Cobb&#8221;, looks like kind of a nosy student who tries to go after Cobb&#8217;s most deep and dark secrets &#8211; at one point (Limbo), justified as trying to protect the crew.<br />
On Ariadne&#8217;s first test, she goes on a rampage changing the whole dream scene and calling a lot of attention to herself (despite Cobb&#8217;s warnings) &#8211; which could be interpreted as naiveness&#8230; or that <strong>Ariadne wanted</strong> to do that in the first place to get <strong>Mal to show up</strong>.<br />
She is the only one who could do that, and it works as a perfect excuse to bring Mal up (and learning more about Cobb&#8217;s story), for her to keep warning and giving advices to Cobb about it, leading to Cobb&#8217;s confrontation.</p>
<p>So that&#8217;s it, though I&#8217;m shure I&#8217;ll have more to say after watching the movie again.<br />
This is the reason why I admire the movie so much. It&#8217;s very rare nowadays for a movie plot to continue after it&#8217;s end, to make you want to watch it again not because you didn&#8217;t understand, but because maybe there&#8217;s more to it you&#8217;ll only be able to get on a second look.</p>
<p>And maybe I&#8217;m just looking too much into it, and completely wrong. I dunno. Guess only Nolan will be able to tell after all&#8230; or if someone finds something that voids my view, I&#8217;d be pleased to know about it!</p>
<p>Hope you enjoyed the read and the movie! And please, if you come to agree with me after reading the post, give me credit for it &#8211; remember I reached this on my own! <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
- Renato Murakami</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Taum galera, Imin Matsuri é nesse finds! Segue as informações pra quem não conseguir ler no cartaz&#8230; Data: 18, 19 e 20 de junho (dessa sexta até domingo) Local: Pavilhão de Exposições do Parque Barigui Entrada: R$5,00 (sexta-feira a entrada é gratuita) Horário: 18h às 22h na sexta e das 11h às 22h no final [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Taum galera, Imin Matsuri é nesse finds!<br />
<div id="attachment_17392" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 399px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/cartaz_imin_2010.jpg" rel="attachment wp-att-17392" rel="lightbox[17391]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/cartaz_imin_2010-389x540.jpg" alt="Imin Matsuri 2010" title="Imin Matsuri 2010" width="389" height="540" class="size-large wp-image-17392" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Imin Matsuri 2010</p></div><br />
Segue as informações pra quem não conseguir ler no cartaz&#8230; <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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Data: 18, 19 e 20 de junho (dessa sexta até domingo)<br />
Local: Pavilhão de Exposições do Parque Barigui<br />
Entrada: R$5,00 (sexta-feira a entrada é gratuita)<br />
Horário: 18h às 22h na sexta e das 11h às 22h no final de semana</p>
<p>Fonte: <a href="http://www.tadaimacuritiba.com.br/2010/06/11/evento-imin-matsuri-2010/">Tadaima! Curitiba</a><br />
*English readers: This is a post about a local event that&#8217;s happening this weekend</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Uma amiga me chamou a atenção de que provavelmente teria muita gente passando aqui pelo blog (que está meio abandonado) buscando informação a respeito do Matsuri deste ano, então resolvi postar. VI Hana Matsuri (Festival das Flores) Local: Centro Cívico &#8211; Av. Cândido de Abreu (em frente ao Palácio Iguaçu) Data e horário: Dia 10 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Uma amiga me chamou a atenção de que provavelmente teria muita gente passando aqui pelo blog (que está meio abandonado) buscando informação a respeito do Matsuri deste ano, então resolvi postar.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CgPDzihPoMs">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CgPDzihPoMs</a></p>
<p>VI Hana Matsuri (Festival das Flores)<br />
Local: Centro Cívico &#8211; Av. Cândido de Abreu (em frente ao Palácio Iguaçu)<br />
Data e horário: Dia 10 de abril (sábado) das 11 às 22 horas<br />
                     Dia 11 de abril (domingo) das 11 às 21 horas<br />
Entrada livre (gratuito)<br />
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<div id="attachment_17373" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 392px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/CARTAZ-HANA2010_MAIL1.jpg" rel="attachment wp-att-17373" rel="lightbox[17370]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/CARTAZ-HANA2010_MAIL1-382x540.jpg" alt="Hana Matsuri 2010 Curitiba" title="CARTAZ-HANA2010_MAIL" width="382" height="540" class="size-large wp-image-17373" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Hana Matsuri 2010 Curitiba</p></div></p>
<p>Release:<br />
&#8220;Uma apresentação da dança moderna dos festivais no Japão, o “Yosakoi Soran Street Fest” e um show de taiko (tambor japonês), abrem amanhã (sábado), às 12h15, o VI Hana Matsuri (Festival das Flores). Este evento, que comemora o nascimento de Buda, é organizado pela comunidade nipo-brasileira e pela primeira vez será realizado no Centro Cívico, em frente ao Palácio do Iguaçu.<br />
Este ano Curitiba está sediando o segundo festival brasileiro de yosakoi soran street fest (o primeiro evento foi realizado em 2009 em SP). Estão participando grupos de Londrina, São Paulo, Campo Grande e Curitiba e a apresentação de todos será no domingo, às 15 hs.<br />
No sábado, às 13h30, está programado um ritual budista quando crianças tipicamente vestidas estarão fazendo um cortejo até o local onde será realizada a cerimônia religiosa. Os monges budistas e acólitos acompanharão o cortejo distribuindo talismãs de proteção. Depois da cerimônia o público terá a oportunidade de dar o banho de chá doce na estatua do pequeno Buda para pedir paz, saúde e sorte para todo o ano.<br />
Além do ritual budista durante os dois dias estarão sendo vendidas comidas típicas japonesas e o público poderá assistir a apresentações culturais (musica, tambores e dança), de artes marciais e também poderá conhecer o artesanato oriental.<br />
Segue programação abaixo.</p>
<p>Programação</p>
<p>SÁBADO – 10 de abril</p>
<p>11h 00 –Início das atividades na Praça de Alimentação<br />
12h15 – abertura com show de yosakoi soran street fest (dança) e taikô (tambor)<br />
13h30 &#8211; Cortejo de Monges e Acólitos<br />
14h00 &#8211; Cerimônia do Kanbutsue (ritual do banho do chá no Buda)<br />
15h00 – Abertura com autoridades<br />
15h30 &#8211; Bom Odori e matsuri Dance (dança folclórica com participação popular)<br />
15h50 – Moti tsuki ( apresentação de preparação do moti)<br />
16h10 &#8211; Karaokê infanto-juvenil<br />
17h00 – Artes marciais<br />
17h45 &#8211; Grupo Brisk &#8211; Cover do SuJu (dança moderna)<br />
18h00 &#8211; Show de música, dança e taiko (tambor)<br />
19h30 – yosakoi soran (dança moderna)</p>
<p>DOMINGO – 11 de abril</p>
<p>11h 00 –Início das atividades na Praça de Alimentação<br />
12h30 &#8211; Bom Odori e matsuri Dance (dança folclórica com participação popular)<br />
13h00 &#8211; Apresentação do grupo de taikô (tambor) da Acema<br />
13h10 &#8211; Yosakoi Soran. &#8211; Grupo Seishun (Campo Grande)<br />
13h14 – Artes Marciais<br />
14h00 – Moti Tsuki ( apresentação de preparação do moti)<br />
14h20 &#8211; Karaokê infanto-juvenil<br />
15h00 &#8211; Yosakoi Soran Street Fest 2<br />
16h30- Show de música, dança e taiko (tambor)<br />
17h45 &#8211; Grupo Brisk &#8211; Cover do SuJu (dança moderna)&#8221;</p>
<p>Mapa para o local do evento:<br />
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<p>*ah sim, meu grupo de jornalismo (3o período Universidade Positivo) vai estar lá para fazer uma pequena matéria de 2 minutos&#8230; depois que estiver pronto faço um post a respeito. <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Fonte: <a href="http://www.tadaimacuritiba.com.br/2010/04/05/eventos-hana-matsuri-2010/">Tadaima! Curitiba</a> e Assessoria de Imprensa do evento pela Nikkei &#8211; Associação Cultural e beneficente Nipo-Brasileira de Curitiba</p>
<p>*english readers: This is an informative post about a local Hana Matsuri event happening this weekend. <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dunno if I made this clear enough, so I&#8217;m just posting to say that I&#8217;m still making my daily news selection.<br />
You can read them by either:<br />
- Getting a Twitter account and start following the <a href="http://www.twitter.com/XSpBlog">XSpBlog&#8217;s Twitter account</a><br />
- Checking once in a while the <a href="http://xspblog.com/recommendations/">Recommendations page here on XSpBlog</a><br />
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Don&#8217;t be afraid or get in the f* car if you see the above on the Twitter profile or other pics &#8211; it&#8217;s just me.<br />
Just figured out it wasn&#8217;t worth rewriting every piece of interesting news I picked everyday, if I could just point them out like this.<br />
Blog will be used&#8230; quite rarely unfortunately&#8230; for when I produce my own content.<br />
Thanks to all readers out there! <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Danny Choo no Fantástico!</title>
		<link>http://xspblog.com/2010/02/24/danny-choo-no-fantastico/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 18:21:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Mais de mês que não escrevo nada&#8230; é que ainda estou decidindo o que vou fazer com o blog. Mudanças drásticas no formato virão. Mas enquanto isso, estou escrevendo para avisar os otakus brasileiros que neste domingo (talvez no próximo) teremos Danny Choo no Fantástico! Pra quem não conhece, Danny Choo pode ser considerado o [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mais de mês que não escrevo nada&#8230; é que ainda estou decidindo o que vou fazer com o blog.<br />
Mudanças drásticas no formato virão.<br />
Mas enquanto isso, estou escrevendo para avisar os otakus brasileiros que neste domingo (talvez no próximo) teremos Danny Choo no Fantástico!<br />
<div id="attachment_17349" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4270314681_abefb7bb14_o.jpg" rel="attachment wp-att-17349" rel="lightbox[17348]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4270314681_abefb7bb14_o-640x294.jpg" alt="Danny Choo" title="4270314681_abefb7bb14_o" width="640" height="294" class="size-large wp-image-17349" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Danny Choo em seu ambiente de trabalho (inveja)</p></div><br />
Pra quem não conhece, Danny Choo pode ser considerado o embaixador internacional dos otakus no Japão.<br />
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Não quero ficar puxando o saco aqui, mas ele não é um otaku ordinário como eu e você. <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<div id="attachment_17350" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 455px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4271059316_272fa961bb_o.jpg" rel="attachment wp-att-17350" rel="lightbox[17348]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4271059316_272fa961bb_o.jpg" alt="Danny Choo" title="4271059316_272fa961bb_o" width="445" height="294" class="size-full wp-image-17350" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Palestra dada na Anime Festival Asia 09</p></div><br />
Danny possui uma lista espantosa de grandes empresas (como Amazon do Japão, Microsoft e JAL) onde trabalhou, uma lista de redes de televisão (CNN, BBC News), revistas e grandes portais onde deu entrevistas, além de eventos que ou participou ou promoveu em diversos países onde se fala uma das cinco línguas que domina.<br />
<div id="attachment_17352" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 455px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4270313117_d6b1c075dd_o.jpg" rel="attachment wp-att-17352" rel="lightbox[17348]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4270313117_d6b1c075dd_o.jpg" alt="Danny Choo" title="4270313117_d6b1c075dd_o" width="445" height="294" class="size-full wp-image-17352" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Danny Choo em filmagem - The People vs George Lucas</p></div><br />
Está por trás de vários projetos interessantes (como o livro <a href="http://www.figure.fm/feature/en/otacool/">Otacool</a>) e atualmente é diretor-executivo do portal de Internet &#8211; Mirai Inc que tem grandes empresas como clientes.<br />
<div id="attachment_17351" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 455px"><a href="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4270313181_da9fd1413f_o.jpg" rel="attachment wp-att-17351" rel="lightbox[17348]"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4270313181_da9fd1413f_o.jpg" alt="Danny Choo" title="4270313181_da9fd1413f_o" width="445" height="294" class="size-full wp-image-17351" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Danny Choo e Amano Ai na loja Kotobukiya - Akihabara em sessão de autógrafos para o lançamento do livro Otacool</p></div><br />
Danny Choo foi um dos grandes inspiradores em minha decisão de criar e manter este blog.<br />
Escrevi um certo número de posts onde ele aparece em algum ponto, como em <a href="http://xspblog.com/2009/12/27/hobby-trailer/">Hobby Trailer</a> e vídeos de seu alter-ego (que o tornou famoso no início da carreira no blog) &#8211; <a href="http://xspblog.com/2008/07/13/tokyo-dance-trooper-br/">Tokyo Storm Trooper</a>.<br />
<div id="attachment_17355" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 650px"><a href="http://www.dannychoo.com/"><img src="http://xspblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/4108446800_2e7d2cef50_o-640x315.jpg" alt="DannyChoo.com" title="4108446800_2e7d2cef50_o" width="640" height="315" class="size-large wp-image-17355" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">DannyChoo.com</p></div><br />
Pra quem sabe bem inglês, recomendo visitar o <a href="http://www.dannychoo.com/">blog do Danny Choo</a>. É um misto de cultura otaku, a vida cotidiana no Japão, mais alguns outros temas que também cubro por aqui. <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Fonte e informações detalhadas: <a href="http://www.dannychoo.com/post/en/25018/Danny+Choo.html">Página instituicional do blog official do Danny Choo</a></p>
<p>*english readers &#8211; This is an annoucement of Danny Choo&#8217;s interview that will show up on brazillian TV next Sunday. Post is mostly Danny&#8217;s bio, which can also be found on the link above! <img src='http://xspblog.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Strapya World &#8211; Sound of Something Button Keychain</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 01:21:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Strapya World is a japanese toy company/distributor/store that get on the news every now and them for their weird, cute, interesting and unique ideas for toys. Lots of random cellphone straps or keychains with random sounds. They are sold like small gifts and prizes&#8230; generic toys. Smells like office prank, don&#8217;t they? Source: tomonaring YouTube [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.strapya-world.com/">Strapya World</a> is a japanese toy company/distributor/store that get on the news every now and them for their weird, cute, interesting and unique ideas for toys.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YwIIRW-gZmo">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YwIIRW-gZmo</a></p>
<p>Lots of random cellphone straps or keychains with random sounds.<br />
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They are sold like small gifts and prizes&#8230; generic toys.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lf22X9w3XfM">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lf22X9w3XfM</a></p>
<p>Smells like office prank, don&#8217;t they?</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/tomonaring">tomonaring YouTube Channel</a></p>
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		<title>I Can Has Cheezburger &#8211; Kitteh on the Prowl</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 16:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What got my attention on this Cheezburger video is the cat&#8217;s pupil: Freakish or funny? I dunno! So, I spent yet another very productive evening doing this: Enjoy! Source: ICanHasCheezburger Related Posts:I Can Has Cheezburger &#8211; Cat Wants AttentionI Can Has Cheezburger &#8211; Digging DogI Can Has Cheezburger &#8211; Fast Dog, Faster TailI Can Has [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What got my attention on this <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/cheezburger">Cheezburger video</a> is the cat&#8217;s pupil:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5iiQRNVJxh4">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5iiQRNVJxh4</a></p>
<p>Freakish or funny? I dunno!<br />
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So, I spent yet another very productive evening doing this:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VJ-o9x_YNM">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VJ-o9x_YNM</a></p>
<p>Enjoy!</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/cheezburger">ICanHasCheezburger</a></p>
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